Feelings

I'd rather let myself hurt than others hurt...

That's the one thing that i've been doing ever since...

Tears rolling down my cheeks are something normal...

Especially when i have to make sacrifices for others...

What is love?

For me it means pain and hardship before all the beautiful things to fall in place..

Yes i've been hurt... For a gazillion times..

But i'm still searching.. For the one that can give me what i would call true love..

As for now, i have to wake up and realise, the only true love i could get is from HIM. Allah the Almighty.

Regardless of the countless time that i forgot about Him.. That i've put other things before Him.

He is still there waiting for me..

Reaching out to me..

Oh Allah..thank you for never giving up on me eventhough i've gone astray many times..

Thank you for being there for me when i needed someone to hear me out..

When i needed a shoulder to cry on..

When i needed someone to lend his ears..

When i needed a hand to hold me..

Guide me.. Guide me and don't leave me astray..

I'll always need your love forever..more than anything.. Cause that's what important for me right now..

Oh Allah..please give me strength to overcome this hurdle.. To pass this hurricane and typhoon.. To pass this hardship and pain..

23… its just a number lah!

Assalamualaikum w.b.t..

Alhamdulillah.. I am 23 years and 4 days old now..lol
Thank you so much to all that have been praying for my good health…
Alhamdulillah than I am still alive.. Alhamdulillah ya Allah I still have the chance to repent to you..
and yess.. thank you Allah for all the wonderful live u have given me.. for all those ups and downs.. there are always a reason to the things that happened in my life. I'm feeling so blessed with the family that He has given me, for the friends that has been there for me.. for the challenging life so that I get much stronger and much wiser..


yes, age is just a number coz maturity comes with responsibility.. so I can be very immature on the inside but very mature on the outside. LOL.. basically I can be whatever I choose to be. So alia, PLEASE choose it right!

Thank you to :

1. my parents for the very special birthday present---->ring
2. my MR Secret admirer (not anymore) ----> swarovski element table figurine (i love it so much!!)
3. Kak Lin----> the most beautiful frame and the cutest nici sheep toy =) it is so cute ok!
4. Alice Sim -----> star necklace (coz I'm a star right? LOL)
5. my darling Lee Pei Chin and her mom -----> Mademoiselle Ricci by Nina Ricci body lotion
6. Brothers ---> birthday card!
7. others for more presents to come =P

I love u all with all my heart <3 <3 <3

an eye opener

assalamualaikum w.b.t…

today's entry is short and fruitful.. I've just come across my friend's blog and I found an entry from her blog that is so important and such an eye opener for all of us muslims. insyaAllah…

this is the link to her blog. hope all of us will benefit from it. insyaAllah..---> damalee

tired

Hi guys,

I know I haven't been updating for ages. It is simply because I have LOTS of things to do. Now I have started my internship at DRB Hicom, so driving to Shah Alam from Ampang was a living hell. I had to leave the house around 6.30am and I'll arrive there at 7.20am. Nah, I don't feel like nagging bout work atm. will tell that later.

Cheers.

Breakdown..

I wish I could just reset my time management..but every time i want to do that, it seems like i'm too occupied with lots of other things until i don't dare to reset it.. I feel like i've forgotten everything about time management. Or its just pure laziness...procrastination..i wish i could be a better person.. I wish i could be more responsible.. Yesterday, some random Chinese uncle came to me and ask what am I studying. I told him i'm doing accounting and taxation. He was like wow! Then he grab my arm and said "don't let your parents down ok." Suddenly i feel like.. Omg, i haven't been responsibleenough with   my life.. I don't  know.but that's what i think.. What ire ally feel is that Allah sort of like sent a message to me through that uncle.. To study well and not let my parents down.. I miss my parents...

Syawal 1434 in Perth with full of dramas

Assalamualaikum..

Alhamdulillah we are already in the month of Syawal after fasting for a month in Ramadhan. To celebrate Eid here in Perth was full of dramas. I don't know why the muslims here can't unite to agree on the Eid day. Majority celebrates it on Thursday, some celebrates it on Friday. Depends on their mosque. Funny right. Oh well. this is definitely something that I can't experience in Malaysia except from celebrating Eid without my family.

well, I don't really feel like celebrating Eid this year. I don't know why. Probably because I celebrate my Eid in class. Haha. IKR. when people in Malaysia were busy visiting relatives, uploading photos (food especially) on IG and Facebook and twittting about this and that, I was sitting in my lecture listening to my lecturer talk and explain TAX 335. oh well, it was really quite an experience.

that night, I was invited by Yuni to come over for dinner. oh Alhamdulillah, after dinner we really had an awesome and fruitful conversation that i'll never forget in a million years. than for the scrumptious lontong Yuni. You are an awesome cook!

On Friday was my proper Eid, early in the morning Mas fetch me to her house. Cik Siti cooks a lot of food. I love her sambal goreng the most and her kek sarang semut. oh my gosh..its just too good to resist. They best part was I get to play and cuddle lots of babies..hehehe.. you know I love babies right.

So on Saturday, Alice, Bek and I had a little shopping. we went to spotlight, cannington fresh market and carousel. I really love spotlight. I bought 3 colours of felt to make a pillow maybe. Then atok and nek busu fetch me at 2 ish. At atok's house I get to eat nenek's asam pedas ikan pari, ketam taucu and sayur campur. All of them are so good I ate them twice. lol. that night I stayed overnight at atok's place.

that's pretty much how my Eid was in Perth.

p/s: nek busu calls me princess.lol. only nenek and papa calls me this =)

ANDAI LELAKI TAHU

Andai lelaki tahu..
Apabila seorang perempuan jatuh cinta,lelaki itu tidak semestinya punya segalanya tetapi lelaki itu adalah segalanya di hatinya.

Andai lelaki tahu..
Apabila seorang perempuan itu mengalirkan air mata, itu bukan bermakna dia lemah, tetapi dia sedang mencari kekuatan untuk terus tabah mencintai lelaki itu.

Andai lelaki tahu..
Apabila seorang perempuan marah, memang dia tidak mampu mengawal perasaannya tapi percayalah, itu maknanya dia sangat mengambil berat dan menyayangi lelaki itu. Lihat saja pasangan yang baru bercinta, mereka jarang bergaduh. Tetapi percayalah semakin bertambah sayang mereka pada seseorang, semakin pula banyak sesuatu yang terjadi.

Andai lelaki tahu..
Apabila perempuan cerewet, dia tidak pernah bermaksud untuk membuat anda rimas, tapi dia mahu lelaki mengenalinya dengan lebih dekat.

Andai lelaki tahu..
Apabila perempuan berkata dia mahu kamu berubah, itu bukan bermakna dia tidak mahu menerima kamu seadanya, tetapi dia mahu menjadikan anda lebih baik, bukan untuk dirinya, tetapi untuk masa depan anda.

Andai lelaki tahu..
Apabila perempuan cemburu dan tidak percayakan kamu, bukan bermakna dia tidak sayang..tetapi dia terlalu sayangkan kamu dan masih menganggap kamu anak kecil yang masih memerlukan sepenuh perhatian. terkadang dia terlalu risau sekiranya terlalu percaya, kamu akan mengkhianati kepercayaan yang diberi. Naluri keibuannya sangat kuat. Dia hanya mahukan yang terbaik untuk kamu .

Andai lelaki tahu..
Apabila perempuan merajuk, jangan kata dia mengada-ngada. Dia bukannya mahu dipujuk dengan duit atau hadiah, tetapi cukup dengan perhatian yang boleh buat dia rasa dihargai.

Andai lelaki tahu..
Apabila perempuan jarang mengatakan ‘i love u’, itu tidak bermaksud dia tidak mencintai kamu tetapi dia mahu lelaki itu merasai sendiri cintanya, bukan hanya hadir dari kata-kata tetapi juga melalui bahasa tubuhnya.

Andai lelaki tahu..
Apabila perempuan kata dia rindu dgn kamu, dia benar-benar maksudkannya.

Andai lelaki tahu..
Apabila perempuan kata lelaki lain itu lebih baik dari kamu, jangan percaya kata-katanya kerana dia hanya mahu menguji kamu. Dia mahu melihat sejauh mana kamu sanggup menjadi yang terbaik di matanya. Walaupun sebenarnya memang kamulah yang terbaik di hatinya. Selagi dia denganmu, percayalah, walaupun perempuan menganggap masih ramai lagi yang lebih baik di matanya tetapi di hatinya, kamu tetap yang terbaik.

Andai lelaki tahu..
Apabila perempuan berkata kasar, dia bukan bermaksud utk berkasar, tapi dia mahu melihat sejauh mana lelaki itu mampu bersabar dengan sikapnya. Percayalah, hati perempuan itu sangat lembut.

Andai lelaki tahu..
Apabila perempuan berkata, “tolong tinggalkan saya!”, dia tidak bermaksud menyuruh anda pergi selamanya. Dia hanya mahu menenangkan fikirannya sebentar saja. Apabila dia kembali tenang, percayalah dia akan mencari anda semula. Itu tandanya dia benar-benar mencintai anda. Perempuan sulit untuk mengawal perasaan. Dia terlalu emosional. Tapi dialah yang paling menyayangi anda dan sangat sensitif dengan perubahan pada diri anda.

Andai lelaki tahu..
Sememangnya Allah menciptakan lelaki dan perempuan itu dengan perbezaan yang tersendiri. Tetapi sekiranya mereka saling memahami, mereka akan saling melengkapi dan menyempurnakan . Perempuan itu diciptakan oleh Allah indah sekali. Di sebalik air matanya, tersimpan seribu satu kekuatan yang bakal menjadikan seorang lelaki itu merasa selamat bersamanya. Biarpun sebenarnya perempuan itu tampak lemah tapi dia punya kekuatan tersendiri yang dapat menggoncang dunia dan mungkin bisa pula membuat lelaki menjadi lemah kerananya. Jadi hargailah kehadiran seorang perempuan dalam hidup anda kerana dia didatangkan bukan dengan kelemahan sahaja tetapi dia juga ada kekuatan untuk menyongkong anda dan membuatkan hidup anda lebih sempurna. Dialah yang bakal menjadi perempuan bekerjaya, isteri juga ibu yang terbaik untuk anak2 anda.

IMPORTANT FOR US MALAYSIAN MUSLIMS!

Assalamualaikum semua...

Nampak kan title entry ni I wrote in bold. kenapa? sbb this entry is very2 important.
I don't know how to stress this anymore, but it is definitely very2 important..

Sebagai seorg muslim, kita wajib utk menjaga setiap aspek kehidupan kita mengikut tunututan syarak dan apa yg telah digariskan didalam Al-Quran dan Sunnah. Tak susah pon. senang je sebab Allah has given us our manual in life. How to do just about anything. Sama macam beli benda baru. Kereta, tv, peti sejuk, radio, laptop, etc. semua pun ada manual kan? kalau xde manual, macam mane nak guna benda2 tu sume dengan betol kan.. haa, macam tu lah konsepnya.

Tapi, aku bukanlah nak hurai panjang melebar semua aspek. Bukanlah seorang yg alim, juga bukan ustazah. lebih baik tanya yg lebih pakar supaya tak keliru. aku hanya share ape yg aku tahu sahaja. harap2 ia dapat membantu.

Seperti firman Allah SWT dalam Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 168, yang bermaksud: "Wahai sekalian manusia! Makanlah apa yang ada di bumi, yang halal lagi baik dan janganlah kamu ikut jejak syaitan..."

So, dah dapat hint kan? Aku nak cerita isu HALAL.

dah terangkan Allah cakap makanlah makanan yg halal. Kalau kat Perth tu, ya Allah mmg lah ada restaurant makanan halal, tp sgt lah limited. sampai kadang2 naik jelak mkn kat kedai yg sama. setiap kali nak ke restaurant yg baru, kami mesti akan check sijil halal ada ke tak kat restaurant tu.

TAPI.... kalau kat Malaysia ni, brape ramai yg mmg confirm2 akan check status HALAL restaurant yg korang pergi? baik yg baru nak pergi, atau yg dah bertahun2 pegi mkn kat restaurant tu. sape yg check, cuba angkat tangan jap nak tgk... hehehe

ok2..untuk tak nak panjangkan cerita lagi, let me just get to the point, sbnarnya aku ni penggemar tegar makanan jepun. bukanlah yg raw2 tu, xleh terima sgt. kalau nak mkn yg salmon tu amek smoked salmon lah..fuh! sedapnya. *ok melalut jauh lagi

ok, sebenarnya pagi td aku call Jabatan Kemajuan Islam Malaysia (JAKIM) utk check status halal restaurant2 makanan Jepun kat Msia ni. Ya Allah, unfortunately, TAK ADA.. I repeat, TAK ADA satu pon restaurant makanan Jepun kat Malaysia ni yang ada sijil halal dari JAKIM. Yang paling menyedihkan lagi, kitorg satu family pernah nak g makan kat Sushi King, check2 takde sijil halal, bukan ape, sbb taot dyorg masukkan SAKE (rice wine) dalam mknn. kitorg tanya lah staff kat situ, dyorg siap ckp lagi, mmg xde sijil halal lagi, tp dyorg dah mohon.

Shockingly, I checked with JAKIM, dyorg kata SUSHI KING TAK PERNAH apply utk sijil halal JAKIM. so rakan2, shabat handai, sedara mara sume, PLEASE3, stop mkn SUSHI KING ke, MR TEPPANYAKI ke, SHOGUN ke dan yg seantero dengannya.

plus, aku check jugak SEOUL GARDEN tu ada sijil halal tak. JAKIM kata, TAK ADA... mujur tak pernah makan situ lagi. ok lah, sebab dah tegar sgt minat sushi kan, so try lah pulak tanya kalau sushi kat AEON tu halal tak. Alhamdulillah, they said the whole range sushi yg jual dalam AEON tu HALAL ok. boleh mkn. aip! bukan restaurant dalam AEON tu tau. Sushi yg jual dalam supermarket AEON tu aje ok.

ok, dah bnyk sgt bgtau ni, takot makin panjang, makin korang tak berminat nak baca. paling penting skrg ni, tolonglah sebarkan maklumat ni. ini bukan SPAM ok..ini btol2 kejadian..

kalau korang nak check lagi status restaurant2 kat Malaysia ni boleh pegi kat website JAKIM ni check status halal dan masukkan nama restaurant kat dalam search box tu. produk2 pon boleh check jugak. kalau masih ragu2 jugak, haa, terus call JAKIM and tanya, jgn risau, staff dia tak makan org, baik2 je ni no 03-83150200

ok, sebarang pertanyaan, sila dropkan comment dibawah ye..
terima kasih

My wish came true..Thank you Allah

Assalamualaikum and hello everybody..

Just now, a close friend of mine asked me how do I get involved with Herbalife.
Well, honestly, I started Herbalife because I want to get healthy and I want my family to see that I am concern about my health. Not only that, I want my family to be healthy too.
My mom has chronic migraine that sometimes, she can't even get off her bed. My dad has high blood pressure and recently about 3 months ago, he was diagnosed with diabetes (I only got to know this about 3 weeks ago because he kept it as a secret so that I wont be worried).

I got my parents started on the product on the 27th Apr 2013 (if i'm not mistaken). So they are almost 3 months on Herbalife now. They are taking the F1 Shakes, F3 protein, herbal aloe concentrate and tea mix. Their diet plan is to take twice a day. Sometimes only once because of dinner invitations and all (work requirements).

What I really want to tell you all is a very meaningful and life changing moment for me. This morning, when we were having our pre-dawn shakes, my mom asked me have my dad told me about his blood test result. My dad didn't tell me anything about it. So, my mom told me that his blood pressure result is OK and the glucose level result for diabetes is OK too! Alhamdulillah syukur this is all from Allah. The best part is, my dad confessed to his doctor that he didn't take his medications at all. However, he told his doctor he is on the Herbalife diet. The doctor asked my dad to continue what he is doing right now and he will check again in Oct.

Thank you Allah, my reason (niat) for starting Herbalife came true. Now, I'm still on my mission to promote healthy lifestyle, not only to my family and friends, but to random people too.

Anyone interested to make your life better? or u might know someone that needs my help to coach them to a healthy lifestyle, please do not hesitate to contact me at 012-4858345 or whatsapp me at +61452645316..

Life changing moments

Hye all,

My grandpa was admitted into the hospital for not being able to pass motion & urine. He had that problem for a week plus and was admitted for 3 days. It breaks my heart to see my grandpa on the bed motionless (he is always energetic) and still have to fast (doctor requirements), with IV drops and tube to help him take out his urine from the bladder coz it has expand too much that the doctor said it might burst. On the forth day, he insisted to go home because he can't stand the hospital anymore. However on that day, thank god he is able to do no.1.

So, my family when to visit him last Sat & Sun to see his condition. Although I knew that my grandpa can do his business already but I still want him to take the aloe. So after breaking fast (he is fasting because it is the fasting month for us muslims) the first thing he took was a glass of aloe drink. That night I took the aloe with me to our hotel room to mix my aloe drink for my pre dawn meal.

The next morning when we reach at my grandpa's house, my father was the first to approach my grandpa and the first question he ask my dad was " Where is Alia?". Then my dad called me and my grandpa immediately ask me for the aloe drink. He said, it really helped him to go to the toilet. I'm so happy to see him start smiling again. Not only that, to hear him asking for the aloe was like a miracle to me coz he is usually very fussy on things.

I felt like I have given the sunshine to my grandpa. Now, he is recovering well and he is also sharing the aloe with my grandma.

I hope this story of mine will inspire and open your eyes as what it did to me. I don't want anything else in this world rather than seeing my family healthy and happy because my family means the world to me.

Tiap malam tido ngn senapang patah ngan pistol kontot

Assalamualaikum...haa..harini tiba2 rajin plak nak menaip...

Saje nak share cite lah sikit...since aku blek 28 June aritu, adik tiap malam tido ngn aku..except ada satu mlm tu dy tido bilik mama sbb aku kecik hati ngn dy..hahaa..ada lah kisah nya...

But yg paling xleh bla ni, aku bukan tido ngn adik aku je..tido skli ngan senapang patah and pistol kontot dy...

X caya? Nah tgk ni...

  

Ni lah senapang patah dy...

Ni plak si pistol kontot..

Yg ni lah my youngest brother...kalau aku blek je mesti nk tido sama...

Ok dah..tu je citenye...tatatata...haha

Selamat Berpuasa

Herbalife is Halal

Assalamualaikum w.b.t..

Alhamdulillah we are already at our 2nd day of Ramadhan..
So far, alhamdulillah I still have the energy to continue fasting from fajr till maghrib insyaAllah
I only had shakes as my sahur and break fast.. still having the level 10 energy..
the main reason why I blogged today is to clarify about the Halal status of Herbalife.. after researching and asking from the more experience people, I can say that Herbalife is Halal.. they have their Halal certificate from The Islamic Food and Nutrition Council of America (IFANCA) and Halal Food Council of Europe (HFCE).

where is the Halal cert from JAKIM u say? not to worry, cert from IFANCA is accepted worldwide. insyaAllah people have referred and asked this questions to some ustaz. if some of u are still unsure or sceptical bout this, u can refer to the certs below or u can directly email IFANCA (www.ifanca.org)

List of Herbalife Halal Certificate

• IFANCA Formula 1
• HFCE Formula 1
• IFANCA Formula 3
• HFCE Formula 3
• IFANCA Tea Mix, NRG, NW Formula
• HFCE Tea Mix, NRG, NW Formula
• IFANCA Omega 3 Fish Oil (Herbalifeline)
• HFCE Omega 3 Fish Oil (Herbalifeline)
• IFANCA Herbal Aloe Concentrate
• HFCE Herbal Aloe Concentrate
• IFANCA TC Formula
• HFCE TC Formula
• IFANCA Calcium Plus (Xtra-Cal)
• HFCE Calcium Plus (Xtra-Cal)

that's all for now..interested to know more bout this amazing product?

contact me now at 0124858345 - sms/call @ +61452645316 -whatsapp/viber/wechat 

Siapa kata bulan puasa xcukup energy?

Assalamualaikum..

haaaa... nak energy lebih ke bulan puasa ni? bukan stakat energy lebih, energy berlebih2 pon boleh.hahaha.. insyaAllah at the same time boleh sihatkan badan dan kurus sikit..sempena nak raya nnt..insyaAllah..

nak extra energy? amalkan Herbalife.. =)

Ramadhan is here again..

Assalamualaikum...

today is the 1st day of Ramadhan, for those who wants to stay energise during this fasting month, please watch this vid below..

interested? contact me at 012-4858345-ams/call or +61452645316 - whatsapp/viber/wechat..

stay tuned...

Heads up Leo Messi & Christiano Ronaldo fans!!

Assalamualiakum...

hello everybody..feeling great?awesome!
I know many of you are a football fan..especially to this 2 most famous footballer..
LEO MESSI & CHRISTIANO RONALDO...yes! I can hear u screaming....haha..
and for those of you who didn't know, both of them are also consuming HERBALIFE! On and off the field..and I know u agree with me they both look spectacular right?
here are some pics to prove that they are one of us =)
to be a part of this awesome family,
contact me at +61452645316 or u can find me on my Facebook..
good luck!

Handsome guy!

Very inspiring..

I'm also proud to be a part of the team!

everyday..never miss once =)

look what he is pointing at! check out his locker..i can see some shakes and supplements back there...

looking good =)

believe me now?

we even sponsor the whole Barcelona team!

ehhh...dah nak puasa lah..jom kurus sama-sama =)

Assalamualaikum...

pejam celik pejam celik kejap je lagi kita akan bertemu semula dengan bulan Ramadhan yg penuh barakah ini..excited nye!!! hahaha..kenapa excited sgt ni??? ada lah reason dy...rahsia..nak tahu kena stay tuned..

di bulan puasa ni umat islam semua akan berpuasa for 30 days kan..dan puasa adalah salah satu natural way of detoxification..provided that, kita xde lah melantak 10 pinggan time berbuka pose tu..haaa.. kita kena latih diri kita utk eat in moderation..and..bonus point utk kita, bulan puasa jugalah bulan yg kita slalu look forward utk kurus..betol tak??? sape kata betol angkat tangan! hehehe

so, since kita nak puasa tak lama lagi, aku nak ajak lah korg join me on a diet plan with herbalife!! yey!! awesome kan.. dgn diet plan ni, insyaAllah bukan saje leh kurus, tp sehatkan badan juga..yg paling best nnt time raya xyah lah risau baju raya x muat ke, gemok ke ape sume..u dont hve to worry dah nnt..

ni lah die diet plan nye...

so, ape tunggu lagi, yg berminat nak join me with this "nak-kurus-plan-so-raya-nanti-nampak-ohsemm-dan-menawan" boleh contact me on my FB or whatsapp, viber, sms, etc..ni no aku k +61452645316....

ok people..good luck in making your decision..what u get tomorrow, is what u decide today..kalau ada kawan2 ke family ke yg korg rasa berminat nak kurus tu, boleh refer them to me k..i'll be happy to coach them with this diet plan...yippie!

Petua untuk mereka yg berkenaan..

Assalamualaikum semua... haaa..memandangkan sejak dua menjak ni ramai kawan2 aku yg dah kawen lah tunang lah etc, terpanggil plak rasa nak share petua ni..hahaha..aku pon copy & paste aje..nak bg petua sendiri, aku tunang pon xlg.apetah lagi kawen..lambat ag kot..nak kena financially stable dlu baru boleh build a happy home.. so, nah..I hope this helps..

p/s: mungkin berguna utk aku jgk one fine day insyaAllah...=)

Petua Melayan Suami

Kehadiran suami di rumah merupakan satu rahmat kepada setiap isteri. Hanya isteri yang menderhakai suami sahaja menganggap kepulangannya suatu yang dibenci kerana dibebani dengan berbagai kerja dan tanggungjawab. Amat malang sekali jika ramai lagi isteri-isteri yang masih bersikap sedemikian. Hilanglah matlamat perkahwinan di mana isteri sebagai penenang dan penyeri rumahtangga. Di bawah ini dinyatakan cara-cara berhadapan dengan suami. 

1. Semasa suami bercakap hendaklah isteri diam mendengarnya dan jangan suka menyampuk atau memotong cakapnya.

2. Bila suami marah hendaklah isteri mendiamkan diri, jangan suka menjawab. Sikap suka menjawab, bertekak dan menegakkan kebenaran sendiri akan menambahkan lagi kemarahan suami. Jangan terkejut jika suami angkat kaki meninggalkan rumah berhari-hari atau tidak mahu bertegur sapa dengan anda sebagai denda di atas kedegilan anda sebagai isteri. Sebaliknya, kalau suami kembali ke rumah jangan disambung atau diulang-ulangi cerita lama. Sambutlah suami dengan senyuman kasih sayang dan bersegeralah meminta maaf. Jangan kita tunggu suami meminta maaf dengan isteri, jatuhlah martabat keegoannya selaku seorang lelaki.

3. Kadang-kadang si suami sengaja suka mengusik isterinya. Bila dia menyakiti hati isteri hendaklah banyak bersabar, jangan cepat merajuk. Merajuk adalah sifat orang yang tidak matang dan seperti perangai keanak-anakan. Cuba kita perhatikan perangai kanak-kanak, mereka akan cepat menjerit bila ada sesuatu yang tidak kena tambahan pula kalau yang menegurnya itu ibunya sendiri. Sengaja dihentak-hentakkan kaki meraung sekuat hati meminta simpati dari ibunya. 

4. Bila kuku, misai dan janggutnya panjang hendaklah segera dipotongkan (jika panjang janggutnya lebih dari segenggam). Pilihlah hari-hari yang terbaik iaitu hari isnin, Khamis dan Jumaat. 

5. Jika dia berhajat sesuatu hendaklah isteri cepat bertindak. Bangun segera bila disuruh. Jangan melengah-lengahkan kemahuannya supaya tidak mencetuskan kemarahan atau rasa tersinggung di hatinya. Jangan isteri buat acuh tak acuh, hatinya akan kecewa dan menandakan isteri sudah tidak taat padanya. 

6. Hendaklah memasak mengikut kesukaan suami bukannya ikut selera isteri. Kalau suami suka makan gulai kari atau masak lemak cili api, janganlah kita masak lauk asam pedas atau ikan goreng. Suami akan gembira bila seleranya ditepati. Janganlah pula ikan yang menjadi mangsa, diketuk lengkang-lengkung hingga hancur kerana meradangkan sikap suami yang mahu lauk tersebut dimasak mengikut seleranya sedangkan isteri tidak menggemarinya. 

7. Apabila pakaian suami koyak atau tercabut butangnya hendaklah segera dijahit. Jahitlah dengan secantik yang boleh supaya pakaian itu kelihatan kemas dan cantik. Jangan dibuat sambil lewa kerana jahitan tersebut akan melambangkan peribadi isteri samada ikhlas atau terpaksa. Semua suami akan berasa bangga jika pakaiannya dijahit sendiri oleh jari-jemari halus isterinya, sekurang-kurangnya dapat menampung ekonomi rumahtangga. 

8. Sentiasa sediakan barang-barang keperluan di dalam poket baju dan seluar suami iaitu sikat, celak, cermin kecil, minyak wangi dan kayu sugi. Tidak menjadi kesalahan seandainya si suami menolak segala persediaan tersebut tetapi sekurang-kurangnya sediakanlah barangan keperluannya. 

9. Bila bertembung kehendak suami dan anak-anak, dahulukanlah kehendak suami, begitu juga dengan kehendak ibu ayah. Sekiranya suami ingin dilayan hendaklah ditaati meskipun isteri berada di dalam keadaan letih. Melayani suami merupakan satu pahala besar ke atas setiap isteri kecualilah jika suami kita meredhainya. 

10. Apabila menggunakan harta suami ataupun duit yang hendak kita hadiahkan kepada ibu bapa maka mintalah izin darinya terlebih dahulu. Jangan beri dahulu kemudian baharu diberitahu kepadanya. Siapa tahu mungkin wang itu amat diperlukan sedangkan isteri sewenang-wenangnya telah menghadiahkan kepada orang lain, suami dapat pahala sedangkan isteri tidak dapat apa-apa. Sebenarnya meminta izin itu ialah sebelum melakukan sesuatu tindakan bukannya setelah perkara itu berlaku diberitahu. Ini silap sebenarnya tapi kes-kes seperti inilah yang sering berlaku di kalangan para isteri. 

11. Sentiasa berada di dalam keadaan bersih dan kemas ketika suami berada di rumah. Isteri hendaklah berada di dalam keadaan berwangi-wangian supaya hatinya senang untuk bersenda gurau dengan isterinya. Ketahuilah bahawa bersenda gurau antara suami isteri juga merupakan salah satu ibadah yang diredhai oleh Allah swt. 

12. Air minum suami hendaklah sentiasa disiapkan jangan sampai dia minta biarpun sekadar air masak sejuk. Sebaik-baiknya sediakanlah minuman panas seperti kopi, teh atau susu. Air panas elok disimpan di dalam termos supaya memudah dan menjimatkan masa kita. Kalau boleh sediakan kuih-kuih ringan seperti karipap, cucur, bubur, apam ataupun biskut kering. Hal ini juga dapat mengelak anak-anak dari membeli makanan ringan di kedai yang tidak mengandungi zat di samping tidak terjamin kebersihannya.

Akhir kata hendaklah isteri sentiasa menghormati dan memuliakan keluarga suami. Bersikap ramah-tamahlah dengan keluarganya dan bersabarlah di atas segala tindakan mereka jika ada yang bertentangan dengan syariat. Di sinilah peranan isteri untuk berdakwah kepada mereka tetapi biarlah berhikmah dan kena caranya agar setiap tindak-tanduk kita dikasihi dan dihargai oleh mereka seterusnya menjadi menantu atau ipar yang dicontohi akhlak, peribadi dan ibadahnya.

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Assalamualaikum semua...

Harini nak cerita sikit lah apa yg lia rasa amat bermakna yg lia belajar selama beberapa hari ni...
start dari 2 minggu lepas my life has been super hectic, keje duk depan laptop je..bukan main game eh, buat assignment (main sikit adelah release tension je.hehehe) assignment bukan sikit..tp melambak2..
otak aku pon menggelegak je..hati pon kadang panas je macam lava gunung berapi tu sbb geram + stress xpaham2 lecturer nak suh kita buat ape utk assignment.. nanges? xyah cakap lah dah boleh kalah dah cite jepun 1 liter of tears tu sbb aku nanges, 1 gallon of tears kot asenye..bukan sbb cengeng or whatever u call it lah. sbb terlalu stress and emotion pon jd macam roller coaster..seriously, jgn berani lah nak ckp u know what i feel..haha..berangan gangster sket.. mmg susah kot.lagi2 buat assignment law..seminggu kot aku makan, tido, mandi dgn law..hahaa (tipu sgt lah tu kan) tp mmg steghesss lah sgt2..siap mesg papa kt ngadu2 macam2...papa pon tenangkan lah his one and only princess ni..bila papa dah pujuk2 bg nasihat ni aku plak bertambah2 homesick..waaaaaaa....xpelah..sabo2

anyway, next is assignment Accounting and Taxation pulak..yg due esok..Taxation xde hal lah sbb groupmate ok je..dpt groupmate mmg terbaik lah..best lah ngn dyorg..Tim and Mei..mmg best..alhamdulillah...yg accounting ni ha..bukan groupmate tak ok, thankful sgt2 dpt dy as groupmate. but the problem starts bila dy ajak kawan dy join kitorg nye discussion skali and kawan dy dari HK pulakkkk... jd mereka pon berbual lah Cantonese like a boss depan aku..xpe2 mentang2 aku ni xpandai berbahasa Cantonese or Mandarin..siaplah..aku pandai nnt aku shoot balik.. i feel offended kot..rasa dyorg cam rude sgt.. 150 juta kali aku ckp "I don't understand what u guys are talking about"..dyorg buat duno je..muka stress gak sbb xreti nak explain in english..adoi..come on lah..english aku pon bersepah gak..broken sana sini..tp boleh je make the effort ckp english..sbb ni australia lah..camne leh blaja sini lau sepatah ayat english pon xleh sbut..jd i end up ternganga je tgk drama Cantonese..syok tak? eh syok lah kan..free drama kot..xpelah..sabo2..

cite paling latest and masih hangat lagi...hohoho...td aku join HBF RUN..with my housemates Alice, Sandra, Christine and Rebekah + Raymond (not my housemate) ..marathon 12km lah..tp join category walkers je..tak larat lah nak lari 12km..dlu time kat sekolah 400m pon nak putus nyawa dah..along the way jalan tu skali mentadabur alam lah jugak...melihat gelagat2 peserta2 yg join..macam2..what i respect the most is, even ada sorg participant ni buta kot..join 12km walk dgn berpautkan tgn kawan dy..mmg respect lah..pastu ada jgk parents bwk stroller baby, tolak stroller bersama anak2 join the walk..pheww.mmg best lah..people yg dress up mcm2..pakai 'tutu' mcm ballerina tu, pakai red indian, pink wig, bwk balloons, baju pikachu, etc..mcm2..sgt fun ok..next year nak join lagi lah insyaAllah... so kitorg abes that 12km around 2hours 46 mins..hahaha...berzaman gak kan...nak tau sbb pe? sbb kitorg jalan2 berhenti 10 kali sekejap sbb amek gmbr..hohohoho...

pastu abes je marathon dyorg nak g makan roast duck..aish..aku mane leh mkn kat restaurant cina..xhalal..pastu cari punya cari xjumpa kedai tu..last2 dyorg g makan kat kedai Vietnam..aku duk saje lah mula2..pastu tetiba dpt call dr Ashman mintak list nama participants Walympics minggu lepas..aduyai..aku pon rush lah balik...nek blue cat pastu nek bas smpai Vickery House pastu siap ari2 ag..g marathon x lari.nak rush g event berlari bagai..smpai sakit kaki kot..amek barang trus rush g kat carpark sbb duwe ngn ashman ngh tggu.. duwe bwk keta cam ribut.. smpai kat carpark curtin stadium, nak masuk parking, ya Allah! sikit lagi nak accident....aku dah jerit kuat sgt lam keta..astaghfirullah..mujur Allah selamatkan kami..mmg scary sgt2 ok..

turun2 keta dyorg kata dah abes bg medal sume..frust sgt..kesian duwe sbb dy pengarah project kot tp xde time closing..maaf sgt2 duwe..so so sorry..='(
while walking to them, they were all smiling and all..tiba2 dyorg dok congratulate aku..."congrats alia"
and i was like..huh?? monolog dlm hati " aritu main badminton dpt telur ayam je aku, dyorg ni perli aku ke ape?" pastu katie ckp, "eh alia, congrats, u won the lucky draw!!!" huh?? seriously? ya Allah, mmg rezeki sgt2..lama dah kot try ucky draw nak menang xdpt2.. mujur the sponsor for the lucky draw xbalik lagi..so i walked to Michael and took a picture with the prize with him then he handed me the prize of course..oh my..aku senyum sikit punya lebar...happy sgt kot..rasa berbaloi all the rushing that i went through...and guess what is the prize...ipad mini!! alhamdulillah syukur nikmat..segala puji bagi Allah... tp segan kot pastu sbb sume org duk usik2 aku..adoi..segan2...aku buat tak tahu and duk ngn ashman kira duit..sorry lah korg..bukan xnak layan..segan yg teramat sgt td..

abes event ashman tlg anta g building 407 sbb nak jumpa ngn Kylie sbb nak anta assignment accounting yg due esok kul 9 pagi..pergi kat building tu, skali sume pintu kunci..aish mmg terbaik lah...submit besok pagi buta lah jawabnya..last2 kitorg decide nak balik je...smbil jalan balik tu adoi, baru kaki nak terasa sakit..mmg sakit sgt..urat blkg lutut belah kanan macam kena tarik..jd aku pon balik berjalan mcm org tempang..tp mujur xmuscle cramp..alhamdulillah...

haaa, maka abeslah cerita aku utk entry kali ni..harap tak serik lah baca..xtau lah tajuk kena ke tak ngn isi..secara tersiratnya dah kena dah kot..so bila baca entry ni, cuba analyse skali isi2 tersiratnya ye...heheh...masing2 pandai dah mesti boleh nye...oklah..tata...thanx for reading..byeee

p/s: masih berfikir utk buat novel ni..haha..berangan lebih..tp ape boleh buat..my life is full of drama smpai rasa kena compile kot baru boleh simpan lama..hohoho..

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It's almost midnight now. haha. but i'm still bouncing of the walls..=)
earlier today I had a badminton tournament (which my team didn't win). after the tournament my right arm was in super2 pain. i can hardly lift my hand. i even tried sleeping to get rid of the pain, but unfortunately it didn't work =(. so I shouted for help coz I really2 need to use my hand pronto to study for my quiz, and Yuni Phanganswered my shout. lol. she asked me to take the "PAIN COCKTAIL" which is 6 tangkuei + 4 herbalifeline + 4 xtracal.. but i only took 4 tang kuei since i'm not going to bed yet. guess what........
in LESS than 1 HOUR, my arm is starting to get better and I can use it to study my quiz now.. i'm loving the products more and more...

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Dunia ibarat papan gelongsor dan hati ibarat roller coaster...

Assalamualaikum....

hari ni nak bg short entry je sbb assignment bnyk sgt...haritu i cried a lot ..sbb stress assignment, homesick, etc. macam2 lah..biasalah..dah susah2 stress baru lah nak rindu lebih2 kat family kan..time hore-hore tak kabo pule...haa, gtu le..tiba daku terasa dunia macam gelongsor kat playground tu..alah...yg budak2 suka main tu...yg xbrape nak budak dah pun berebut nak main...kenapa macam gelongsor ek?..sbb kadang2 duk kat bawah nak panjat tangga naik atas, bila dah duk atas nak gelongsor turun pulak..dah turun nak naik balik..macam tu lah aku rasa..dan bila duk turun naik tu, hati pon berbolak-balik dgn bisikin2 halus mencucuk2 hati ni..adoiiii!!! tak salah nak down kadang2, tp kena up balik cepat2. pesanan buat diri sendiri dan utk mereka yg rasa pesanan ni bermakna...

*motif pakai gelongsor? sbb sume org asyik pakai roda je.aku nak special sikit pakai gelongsor..hehehe

p/s: bila hati tu rasa mcm naik roller coaster, bacalah ayat ni k
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